Welcome to iRV2.
and the Newmar Family.
The first thing to consider is if your brake lights are on when the exhaust brake is active.
My F/L chassis DS , turns on the brake lights with the exhaust brake, and that can be trouble for the trailer brakes on long down hills with the exhaust brake active. A good true proportional trailer brake controller should help this situation.
You may end up running a suitable size wire from the dash to the trailer plug , my F/L had wires to the rear but they were too small for trailer brakes.
Installation instructions are good with most controllers .
If your coach has shared signal and brake lights; like mine ; , turn the 4 way flashers on when the exhaust brake is active , if the 4 ways don't flash , your brake lights are on.