Find a nearby auto body shop, and a dealer is ok too, that does a high volume of business. Front end collisions are the most prominent, as they require headlamps and pigtails because everything is so cramped. I retired about 5 yrs.ago after 30+yrs.in the business, and I'm shooting straight from the hip with you. We went through this in the early 90's with Honda's, and paid a premium for pigtails, even from a salvage yard, like $50.00 each, yes you guessed it, talking about gouging, they knew there was nothing available from OEM except the wiring harness. If the 1st one doesn't want to help you, move on, you will find an honest person that will help you. Good luck, happy trails and travel safe.
David G.