I would unplug your two head light plugs to bulbs. Than try a fuse. If doesn't blow than it might be a light or something short in the plug of one of them.
You may have shorted elements within the bulb itself.
If when you slow down in traffic the Evans control valve if you have that heater/AC system maybe allowing hot water into the heater that AC part of unit cannot over come. What some of us have done is install a ball valve in one of the heater hoses.
You will see the heater hoses going into the Evans control just to the left of valve.