I've heard that tank indicators are pretty unreliable, so I shouldn't be surprised at what we are seeing.
Our previous RV - a tiny 17ft Casita - had a 15 gal black tank and a 25 gal grey tank. We had no waste tank indicators at all. You just learned from "experience"

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On our Alpine, the black tank indicator seems to be way off. After dumping it shows empty. But after just adding the initial 2 or 3 gallons of water to the tank it registers 1/4 full already - impossible! It's a 78 gallon tank for goodness sake.
After 9 days the black tank indicated full - what!?!. The grey water tank, however, never got above 1/2 full.
We don't believe the indicators. On our little Casita it would take 5 days or more to fill the 15 gallon black tank enough where we needed to dump it. The grey water tank would fill more quickly unless we were frugal in our water usage. So we are quite familiar with our water usage patterns.
Theoretically, given the tank capacities, there should be no way that the black tank is full before the grey water tank is full. We know from our Casita experience that the grey water tank fills first - grey water usage is always higher.
So far we've gone 9 days between dumps. Seems like (based on the grey water indicator) we should be able to go longer and I guess we'll just have to ignore the black tank full indicator until we start to see liquid at the bottom of the pipe from the toilet into the black tank (or 14 days, whichever occurs first).
Given our experience so far think we "should" be able to go 14 days between dumps - or at least until the grey tank is full. I guess we'll see if we can get the grey water tank to ever indicate 3/4 or more full.
Any comments/suggestions would be appreciated.
Audrey
P.S. Sorry for the long and rambling post!