Make sure the lights are on, not just the day time running lights. On our 04 Allure, the lights toggle switch must be on. Then when you pull the stalk, the dash will show the blue high beam indicator.
That being said, our lights even on high, are not very good. Upgrades can be made to help, so do some looking on the Yahoo CC User Group for some options to bump the light up.
Roo II is our 04 Country Coach Allure 40'
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