Happy to hear that you won the battle. I had a peculiar issue where the rear two zones (bathroom and bedroom) would not produce heat unless both were turned on. I put a temporary fix in place (jumpered the relays). That was five years ago.

Now I am experiencing the same symptoms of variable-speed fans in the living room zone. All relay screws are tight but a "wiggle" on the relay will produce the speed variations. Swapping relays does not change the symptoms so I assume I must have a bad base. Never had a base fail.