Hey Bigus Dogus,
First off welcome to iRV2, I think it is the best RV website out there, also you should not type in all CAPS, it is like yelling!!
I am not sure why you want to be between AC & Cape May, but with Kids I would want to be in Cape May, and close to the Boardwalks of the Wildwoods, to much there to do to mention here!!! Also the beach is free, and very big !!
Here is where the NorEasters had there Spring 2006 Rally everyone loved it!
720 Seashore Road
Cape May, N.J. 08204
Office # 609-884-4010 or 1-800-313-CAMP
Also no matter where you end up at. I think it would be very much worth it for your family to go to where the Concrete Ship is in Cape May and see the flag lowering at sunset, I make sure I do it at least once anytimme we are in the area!! Hope this helps some and enjoy