I'm a planner. I think it comes with the mom territory. And a worrier.
My plan isn't a set in stone kind of thing- just a good guideline of where we want to go, what we want to see and do, and the best ways to get there. I absolutely do not want to find us in a situation like our last trip with the GPS snafu!

That was terrifying!
Most of these places (okay, all of them) we've never seen and it's important I ask for all of your wisdom- you've been there, done that. So, naturally, you know the best ways to go and the roads that should be avoided. (Thanks for the tip on Devil's Tower; we'll skip it.)
I've set aside 3 days for the Black Hills area and another 3 for the Icefields Parkway. It seems to be one of the most beautiful areas and 3 days will give us plenty of time to gawk.

I'm planning to spend two nights in the Whitehorse area to just relax and play tourist. As you can see, we are not in a
huge hurry, but we are under time constraints. As I have it planned now, it's going to take us 23 days. Through the US, I'm planning to travel around 300 miles each day, but I'm cutting that down to around 200 in Canada. I don't want to push the kids too much...or the truck. And there's the not so little consideration that our youngest is nursing and eats every 2 hours or so. On the other hand, that should coincide nicely with regular potty breaks for the older ones.
We're in a tight spot with our time limitations. My husband's report date is set. Prior to that, he has a class to go to, then his current unit is requiring one week (M-F) for out-processing, and we can't leave until that Friday afternoon when he's released. (Hence, our plan to not go past Ft. Stockton.) Plus, my worry-wort nature makes me need to have a cushion of time built into our schedule. I finished our itinerary today and I'm happy to say we will have 5 extra days for "just in case." If all goes well, we should be in Anchorage by my birthday! Yay.
We are doing a DITY move; I'm sick of having my stuff stolen and broken due to carelessness. I have to pack it all up, but someone is is going to drive it.
Aside from Devil's Tower, does anyone see anything wrong with the highways Yahoo chose for us? Also, I put Drumheller into Yahoo maps, and it suggested taking CA-1E to Hwy 21N then E on Hwy 72/9. Has anyone gone this way with a tt? I'm considering just continuing on through Calgary, exiting onto 72, dropping the tt off in Beiseker's rv park and continuing on to the museum. What do you think?
We'll backtrack through Calgary to the Icefields Pkwy, to Jasper, then hit the Yellowhead Hwy to Edmonton. For some bizarre reason, my husband wants to go to the mall.

If you went to Edmonton, where was your favorite place to stay/eat? I'm hoping to make it to Dawson's Creek when the farmer's market is open (Saturdays).
From there, I'll look for a campsite somewhere after Fort St. John (maybe as far as the Sikanni River Campground), visit Trapper's Den, the Ft. Nelson Heritage Museum, and stop at Toad River Lodge. We want to visit the Liard River Hotsprings and possibly stop at Coal River Lodge for lunch. (Is it yummy?) From there, we're off to Watson Lake to see the Sign Post Forest and the Northern Lights Centre. I want to see the Rancheria Falls Recreation Area. From there, we're off to Whitehorse.
At Whitehorse, there seems to be a lot that would appeal to my boys, so we'll stop here for the night, spend the next day playing, and leave the following morning. Since we will be living in bear country and that's pretty new for us (well, the kids- not me), I plan to have them listen to the bear safety program at Klaun Nation Park Visitor Center. Somehow, I think having them hear from a stranger in a uniform that bears are not sweet, fluffy critters to be squeezed will have more of an impression than hearing it from the same people that say to eat your vegetables.

Klaun Museum of Natural History, Tetlin National Wildlife Refuge Visitor Center, camp somewhere in the Tok area, take the Tok Cutoff. We will stop somewhere along the way, probably 155-200mi out of Tok. I'd like to see the Musk Ox farm, but we'll live reasonably close to it, so I'm fine with skipping it right now. Drop the trailer in Palmer or on post and go explore. I want to get the lay of the land before I make contact with a realtor and figure out where we want to be and how far is a reasonable distance for my husband to commute.
So, along this route, are there any RV parks you do-or don't- recommend? Any good places to eat? I'll mostly cook, but it would be nice to not have to do dishes
every night. I'm really sad Mukluk Annie's closed; we were looking forward to stopping there. (Yes, we've been trying to get AK for a few years now, and I got an old copy of The Milepost at the library when we began dreaming.

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Thanks for the advice and tips. I'm going to incorporate as many as possible into our trip. Thanks for sharing your knowledge with a newbie and family.