Well i wish i would of waited and read all the replies before i installed it. I did watch the vidio but when i went to harbour frieght to buy a torque wrench for 20.00 i should of known better? The wrench was not clicking and i over tightend the top bolt and bent my beautifull new hitch. I will remove it soon and straighten it in a press and use a piece of aluminum angle iron on top and re torque it to 40# with my brother's snap on torque wrench! Thank you all so much for the responses and i hope my mistakes will help someone else not bend up a 800.00 hitch.