I have a B&W turnoverball hitch in my truck as well, but I (as have most of us with this hitch) chose to use the B&W Companion 5th wheel hitch. Rather than hijack the thread, I'd suggest using the Find function above to run a search on "gooseneck adapter" to get lots of good discussion on this subject.
Insofar as safety chains are concerned, these chains are subject to inertial shock loading, not just a steady pull. I'd suggest working with a qualified trailer shop or trailer hitch shop to determine your needs and get the appropriately rated chains.
On Edit - take a look at the gooseneck trailer safety chains (3rd item from the top)
HERE. By the way, the empty weight of your trailer doesn't mean much unless you intend to pull it empty. I would suggest going by the trailers GVWR plus a safety factor of as much as 50% to 100% (but then again, I'm an engineer - I'm paid to be conservative

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Rusty