We got home safely and the first thing he did was try to show me how to empty the tanks and clean up all the crud. I will admit to being so cranky and tired after a trip home that included 2 girls constantly asking "Are we home yet?" And "Why didn't we just stay longer at Granmas?" Annnnd a puppy pooping in our new truck! That when he started showing me I sorta waved my hand around and said "Sure honey.. I completely understand.. Yup that's pretty cool and next time we go out I will be sure to help!"
All bs! I am sorry. Amen to your amazing wives.. But.. I will do anything he wants but that. Sorry ain't happening! He can do the icky stuff and I will do the rest.
Thank You all for your help!