'Someone' did in fact install an anode rod in your Atwood water heater.
The Hex head has separated from the steel rod the material is formed around.
The Drain port is aluminum and the steel thread from hex head are still embedded in the aluminum drain port with the steel rod sticking out.
Rod is not connected to anything so it will spin and spin and spin
You need to smack the end of the rod with a hammer knocking inside the tank so it is out of your way (can retrieve later)
Then scrape the crud/build up off the FACE of the drain port to expose the threads
Pound an EASE-OUT into hole where rod was and then try to loosen the threaded section and remove.
May have to drill it out using bigger and bigger drill bits ---no larger then 3/8" bit
(Atwood threaded section is 1/2") then use small punch to dislodge remaining steel threads.
After removal......use a 1/2" NPT TAP to clean/straighten the aluminum drain port threads
BUY a 2 pack of ATWOOD NYLON Drain plugs and use them.
As for the stink.....
Good vinegar HOT soak will clean the tank out.
Remove T&P Relief Valve
Pour 7 gallons of white vinegar into tank (drain plug in place)
Then 3 gallons of water
Re-install T&P Relief Valve
Turn water heater ON...electric if possible otherwise propane (electric element getting hot helps clean element)
Let it run thru 4-5 complete heat cycles...Heart/cool/reheat/cool etc
(Run it over night)
Then turn it off......relieve pressure on hot lines (open nearest faucet hot side)
Drain ..........flush/rinse couple times (fill and drain)
Power flush really helps when doing first drain ***Remove NYLON plug turn water supply on and let it blast out thru drain port
NO more ANODE RODS.----not required nor recommended by Atwood
If all else fails.......replace the tank
New tank $204
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