Well after careful consideration and troubleshooting I discovered the problem was actually the transfer switch and I decided not to replace it!
I have simply built a 30A outlet into the gutted case that was my transfer switch and put its counterpart connectors on my shore power and generator wire ends. Now if I want to switch from shore power to my generator or vise/versa I manually unplug one and plug in the other. Problem Solved PERMANENTLY!!!
I did make one whopping mistake though and I want to confess so nobody else does this as well.
I used a female connector on the converter and two male connectors on the shore power and generator wires.
The problem here is the potential to have live male connectors if the generator is started inadvertently or the shore power is connected while the generator is plugged in.
Since I am the only one who makes these connections it is no big deal to me. I just leave the breakers on the generator off unless it is plugged in so if someone starts it nothing will be live. I will also put a dummy receptacle to park the shore power cord in while running on the generator so that if someone plugs it in it will be insulated.
OOPS!