The other day we ran into an issue that shocked the heck out of us and I'm mad at myself for not being ready for it... I want everyone to avoid this in your families!
My mother passed away after a long illness a few months back,
you can never get prepared for it, but she had a great life before she took ill.
She had remarried and while she was happy and my siblings and I were nice enough to our step-father, he wasn't DAD, if you know what I mean...
and as we got to know his kids, we learned they were not our types
actually more like swine as far as we were concerned
Well, my siblings called after a few weeks to go help him clean out Mother's stuff... and he said we didn't need to his kids had already done that !
My siblings were wise to wait until now to tell me !
The Lord knows it's a good thing I wasn't involved in that conversation - there would have been some serious come to Jesus 'discussion'...
Now you see why I am mad at myself for ALLOWING this to happen...
A warning to you...
make sure you cover every contingency before it's needed !
that EVERYTHING is in the will,
EVERYTHING is in writing,
NOTHING is left to 'interpretation'...
even to the point of what to do with "her pets"
just trying to help you avoid it....
I am ready to discuss getting her stuff back not for the monetary part, but just to teach the pigs how to fly !
sorry for the rant - you all take heed.... people do unbelievable things !