Seeing what this decision is doing to my wife, I've made the decision to stay the course in ca right now, as she doesn't want to be away from her family... I'll deal with ca for a while longer I suppose, but it makes her happy, and makes my daughter happy to see her grandparents. As much as I would like to get out of california, family comes first. This picture I just took is why we are staying in ca. From the bottom of the photo, going clockwise, my daughter, my wife, wifes mom, and wides dad, all doing a puzzle. I was told by my daughter she did not want me to participate, so I'm taking pictures instead...