Ok, here's what I have done. I found out that the item pictureds in the above post was the headlight relay. I bought a 40A relay and wired it in as follows:
Green wire from dash 12V to the relay number 30
Wired-in a ground to 86 from the back of the dash where the old relay mounted
Power out to the tail lights came out from pin 87 to the brown wire
Power/switch from light switch (Red) into 85
Walla there is power to the lights!!!
Now to change the oil in engine and transmission and time to hit the road for memorial day weekend