45 acres of your own- cool!
Hmmm...
I smell an opportunity here

How about tradin' time?
You can camp on my 35 acres whenever you're in the West, and I can camp on your 45 acres whenever I'm in the East!
About the winter rain and your wife's reluctance to camp on the property at that time:
You and your co-owners might consider building some kind of "picnic shelter" there- you know, something you could pull up to and park alongside in winter...complete with a big ol' stone firepit etc.
Something like this, maybe without the sag to one side
OR....

You could get all carried away and build 'er with an honest-to-goodness fireplace
How cozy would that be?
Francesca
P.S.

EGAD!!!
I've just suggested
another project for you!!!!
Perhaps I really am Evil Incarnate
F.