We too experienced strong winds on our first cross country trip. I investigated both the Blue Ox System and the Safe T Plus steering control. We decided to go with the Safe T Plus system as it seemed simpler. With the Blue Ox you need to push a button and reset straight direction. I wanted something I didn't have to think about. It seems like a nice addition based on a brief local test drive in some 30 mph winds, but admittedly we haven't really challenged it.
We will be back on the highway next spring, and will be able to provide a better review, but I wanted to share our thought process. Good luck.
2014 Winnebago Sightseer 33C, 2010 Jeep Wrangler Sahara
Safe T Plus 41-230 Steering Control, Blue Ox Aventa Tow Bars,
Roadmaster Brakemaster auxiliary brake, KarGard II Towed Vehicle Protector