Just an update. After 3 days of extensive research this is what I have decided.
Going with the Blue Ox tow bar and base plate and the SMI ( stay-in-play DUO) same thing as the Air Force One and made by the same company.
Everything out the door including tax is $3,814.00, Blue ox tow bar and base plate, wiring parts, safety chains, drop receiver, locking pins and SMI brake system.
Approx 233.00 more than what I was quoted from another dealer but using there Patriot Box and I FEEL this system will do more and less headache. JMO of course