I've been researching and pondering. I realize what I want doesn't exist from the factory but I figure Newmar reads this so I might as well lay it out and maybe they will do this someday...
Note, a simple visio diagram should appear just below:
This of course is ridiculously over simplified. But the idea is to use soft starts on all AC, have as much solar as you can on the roof and then a monster sized lightweight high power density Lifepo battery bank to draw from. On a good day you can go about life with no generator or shore power. On a bad day you suck the batts down and use the genny under heavy load to juice them back up as fast as possible during the allowed times (EG most state/NP rules of 8-10am and 4-8pm).
Dream state is this is done via no human intervention via my SilverLeaf panel/app. I arrive, set in my allowed genny times then the "machine" picks the best source(s) to charge up the batts. I go about my day using AC, stove, TV etc. About the only concession I'd be wanting to make is the dryer. As I'd probably want a water source too. And then I'm full hook up anyway.
One can dream right?