Hello - welcome to the RV world and Newmar.
You have a great motor home, it will bring you much enjoyment and memories.
Grey tank - - when it reads 2/3s - time to empty or you may get some water at ankle depth in the shower by not emptying the tank.
Squeaky door - Our Canyon Star had the same issue. Seems to be common-place with Newmar. At a warranty service call at the factory I listed it as a warranty item. The door was adjusted - - and of course just out of site of the factory - the squeak started again. I have found that an occasional spray of silicone on the latching bar does wonders. I use spray silicone on a lot of things in the motor home.......get a can and keep it in your basement took chest.
A/Cs - it takes some time to get the hang of what works and what does not with motor home A/Cs. I have come to envy motor homes with 3 units. Here is what I have learned over the couple years we haver been RVing........
The back end is easier to cool than the front end. Reason is less windows more insulated wall. The front end you have the windshield, passenger and drivers window.....all letting in that beautiful warm sun. I call it the Green-House effect! Our Canyon Star has as I am sure your's does the black shades. They work great at keeping light out and snooping eyes from peeking in the dark - - but - - the sun heats them up. Now you have a warm - almost hot item in an area you want to cool.......
So what I am saying, it may not be the thermistors sensors in your motor home - - the AC units are doing their best to keep up on a hot/humid day.
Here is something we learned along the way......
First of, with a 2 AC motor home - - I don't believe the inside will get much cooler than perhaps 10 or 15 degrees colder than out side (if that). So if it 95° outside - it will probably never reach 73° inside.
So we do this - I set the rear AC at say 72° and the front at 78° on a 90+° day. The back AC will cool the rear and will send air through you ducts in the front, thus helping the front to stay cooler. On extremely hot and humid days, the units will run constantly during daylight hours.We can hang meat in the bedroom!!
We have a 1500m unit on the front and a 13.5m on the back and I haven't seen much different than when I had 2 13.5m units on my old DP - - basically the same size motor home.
If you want to try and help your AC units - you may consider ordering Magna Shades
https://magneshade.com. Expensive but if they keep you more comfortable?? We have ordered a set and waiting for delivery now...... There are other outside shade options for your motor home as well and a lot of discussion here on iRV2. I have read Magnashades have kept the inside up to 20° cooler.......hmmm - we'll see.
Hope this info helps a little or give you more food for thought........
Take care,
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