Thanks John for the informative video
Newmar has changed their method of the piping since I had a kitchen slide in a 3765--98 coach.
At that time they had like slip knuckles set up on the ends like a bicycle pedals.
As the slide moved out the knuckles would turn for water lines and the drain line.
The old flex pipe in your set up might have been to stiff and not flexible enough thus braking at welded connection to stationary pipe.
Do not know if you ever ran into other MFG's setups for kitchen slides but they left something to be desired.
When I saw them it made me decide to get a Newmar.
Simple Newmar design but cheaper than what I had on 98 Newmar.
There were 6 slip knuckles in that design.
If your new flex pipe is more flexible it should last longer than the old one.
ernieh's idea of a slightly longer flex pipe would put less strain on pipe joint connection as long as there is room in that area to do it, which looks like it does.
Your stainless water piping should work well also.
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