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Your 09 should be identical to my 08. I doubt they made any changes with the company going bankrupt at that time.
Go to #28 for some information.
Look inside your front run panel and in the upper left quadrant you will find a small circuit board spaced off the maine board. It has a molex plug with three pins as I recall and then two flying leads that sense each bank of batteries.
That BIRD board is no longer available but it is responsible for making that solenoid work.
Is your solenoid located in your battery compartment along the back wall? If so it has a violet wire on one of the small terminals and the other small terminal color I don't remember but it is ground.
The purple wire becomes activated with the aux start button and/or the BIRD board when it sees any source of charging voltage on either bank of batteries.
Only in one condition it does NOT combine the batteries. That is when you are tooling down the road with the generator running as you should do and was mentioned so your generator is charging a low bank of batteries instead of hammering your alternator which is NOT designed to fill deeply discharged banks of batteries.
OF course many folks do but it is best to let the generator do its jobs.
The BIRD senses the generator is running and does NOT combine the batteries when it sees the alternator charging.
Just fyi. Crazy Knight has asked me to help with a presentation on the operation of this at the Lazy Daze gathering in Tampa. There is a lot of confusion on these and they are snow flakes of course.
Understanding how yours specifically works is important and apparent that you are eager to know yours intimately. If the pictures shown in the attachments are what you have then you will be able to understand yours completely.
I like back strap and liver.