Ok, you guys seriously rock. Thank you for all your help, I cannot tell you how appreciated it is.
My RV is in the shop just getting checked out mechanically, but I'll be back on trying to fix the wiring this weekend. The electrical diagram l1v3fr33ord1 posted is gold and exactly what I was hoping for, but all the responses were greatly appreciated.
I'll update the thread with how it goes, what I discover and photos.