Some coaches used a latching relay to energize the water pump. The latching relay was used with water pump switch being momentary and often there is more than one switch (bathroom + Galley). The issue I have is most are 4 wire latching relay and you only have 3 pin connector. The ones I have seen are located on amazon
https://www.amazon.com/Intellitec-00.../dp/B00A2TBL7A
Prior experience the latching relays circuit the white wire is ground; Violet wire goes to pump; Red or Org goes to Coach power via fuse; Signal wire small wire sometimes red.
I hope this helps you in your search.