Concerning the issue I mentioned in the first post, I thought I'd post a followup with some observations about the install.
The issue here is that the end link OEM bolts are 12mm metric and the holes are drilled accordingly (at least that's the case for my F-53, YMMV). 12mm is 0.47244 inches, so just a little smaller than the 1/2" bolt RoadMaster provided.
I did call RoadMaster and asked about the need to drill the bottom end link holes. They didn't seem aware of the issue, but encouraged me to use the supplied 1/2" bolt.
Then I called Henderson Line-up, who sold me the RoadMaster bar. They, too, encouraged me to use the supplied 1/2" bolts, but they said they don't drill the holes. Instead they simply use an impact wrench to 'drive' the bolt into the metric holes.
Using a 1/2" drill bit I enlarged the hole in the bottom of the end link Z bracket. Then I learned that the hole in the frame was already 1/2"!
New anti-sway bar is now installed correct and tight.
Here's some thoughts on the install process:
* Instructions say to re-use the axle attachment bolts. Roadmaster provided bolts for this location, so I asked Roadmaster. He just said the instructions are not updated and to use the provided bolts.
* Instructions say that the bottom end link bolt on the passenger side will not install because of hitting the A/C compressor, so they recommended installing from the frame side, and placing the nut on the end link side. For me, doing this caused the bolt to end up too close to some metal lines (maybe 1/8 -1/4" gap). I was able to reverse the bolt and place it the correct direction (same as drivers side). I just had to hold those metal lines to one side while inserting the bolt. Now the head of the bolt is a good 1" from the metal lines.
* All supplied 1/2" nuts are nyloc style, and no torque settings are provided.
I get that apparently there are a lot a variations in how Ford built these F-53's over the years, and variations based on the different GVWRs. So my advice is to not take the printed instructions as 'the code'. They're more what you call 'guidelines'.
Thanks for reading.... hope this helps some else with a RoadMaster 1139-140 and a 2004 F-53, 20500#.
-Doug