Addressing the OP's comments about handling feel - I put new tires on a couple of months ago and had the same impression I think you did. I thought it felt loose or a bit squirrely. (how did that become a word? Is it a word?)
My neighbor drives Fed Ex Freight and he wasn't surprised at all. "Just drive it; it'll be fine." I did, and it is. Doing some reading as a result of that feel vs what I had apparently been used to over the past 10 years I found I was not alone on that impression.
Setting aside weight and inflation, I learned that the loose feel was not necessarily unexpected and now after about 3,000 miles either it has settled in, or I gave adapted. Or a bit of both. In any case, the last 500 miles was a much nicer drive than the first 500.
The takeaway I see here is that you need to be hitting the road!