I purchased one of these:
RV5 Extended Kingpin - Pop Up Hitch. E-trailer also has it (as does Amazon).
You can bolt it on, but I had my kingpin cut up/welded with it permanently. I spent $300 on the adapter and $200 on the welding. With that money I should have gotten an auto slider, but you live and you learn.
Anyway, thats an option and it works for me...mostly...but even with that I blew out my rear window pulling a quick u-turn, heh.