"Are there any experienced towers out there dealing with travel trailers and trying to smooth out their ride over bumps and roller coaster roads?"
The "Bouncing Betty" or "porpoising" ride is typically due to the rear axle of the tow vehicle bouncing off the travel stops. It is an interaction between the road surface and the suspension. It usually starts at a certain speed and increases with the speed. It often disappears on smooth roads and reappears on concrete roads at certain speeds.
It is a sign that the rear axle is overloaded. The solution is to reduce load on the rear axle of the tow vehicle.
Removing heavy objects from the truck bed can help.
Adjusting the weight distribution hitch to move more weight to the front would most likely solve the problem. Typically the height at the front of the loaded tow vehicle should be close to ¼ inch of the unloaded height.
Re-balancing the trailer will work, but don’t reduce the tongue weight too much. You typically need 10% to 15% of the actual trailer weight on the hitch to maintain towing stability. Move weight from in front of the TT axle to the rear. I reduce tongue weight by 50 pounds by moving food stocks to the rear while towing.
Using air bags or lift assist springs on the back of the tow vehicle may stop the bouncing, but the rear axle would still be overloaded. Air bags do not increase load capacity. They only level the tow vehicle.
Fully load the tow vehicle and the travel trailer and take it to a commercial scale. Get axle weights and gross weights for your whole rig. Compare the results with the weight sticker values found in the tow vehicle driver’s door frame. Do not exceed any of those specifications.
Also compare the trailer weights with the travel trailer weight sticker specifications on the front left side of the trailer. Do not exceed any of those specifications. Note: tongue weight specification on the TT sticker is general reference only. It is not relevant to loading.
I wish you good luck and happy trails ahead!