Hi Sharon! Welcome to IRV2! We're sure glad you joined us!
So sorry about your husband! I wish I could help with your problems but you really need to have someone in your area look at it and try to help. It's gonna be really difficult for anyone to help you without inspecting it.
BTW, you will get much better results if you post questions over in the specific areas of the forum. Not many folks hang out here in the Welcome area so your responses will be limited. Enjoy the forum!
Good luck, happy trails, and God bless!
Joe & Annette
Sometimes I sits and thinks, sometimes I just sits.....
2002 Monaco Windsor 40PBT, 2013 Honda CRV AWD