The Ford chassis manual is available online
here. See pages 63-69. If your 2008 is built on a 2007 chassis, use
this link instead.
Sorry- the left and right trailer turn/stop light relays share a fuse in the Ford fuse panel under the dash, #22. It's a 20A fuse.
Trailer park lamp relay is fuse #15 in the fuse box under the hood. It's a 20A fuse.
This assumes that Newmar uses the Ford signals. If they don't, or if they pass the signals through other fuses or relays, then ignore the above.