Turfnsurf-
First off, welcome to iRV2!
Second, you should add a "signature" to your profile. It contains whatever info you want; most people put info about their coach there, so they don't have to type it into each message. Instructions for adding a signature are
here.
Re: Toad battery. It sounds as if the charging current from the coach is not reaching the Jeep battery. Possible causes include:
1) 12V charge line from Jeep connector not connected to battery positive terminal (correctly)
2) Ground from Jeep connector not connected to battery negative (correctly)
3) Ground from coach not common with ground on Jeep (as connected through the umbilical cable)
4) Excessive voltage drop from coach battery to Jeep battery (can be caused by small-gauge wire in umbilical or between connector and battery in Jeep)
5) Failed or missing fuse
I have the Duo in my toad, and the toad has a tiny battery. If the charge line could not keep up with the Duo, the battery would be dead frequently- and it's not. Thus, I don't think your problem is with the Duo.