Thanks everyone! I found the cause yesterday.
After checking cord, plug & ground @ the plug I started tracing the wire back. I'd had some engine work done a few months ago. While tracing the wire back I found a nicely hidden, very clean cut, across ALL the wires for the lights. Reconnecting those got most of the lights working.
Continuing back I found two of the connecters on the back passenger light diode had come lose. That was thanks to an anxious golden retriever pawing at the back corner of the Jeep. Once those were connected we were up and running.
The only thing left is: that back passenger turn signal won't work when the marker lights are on. Suspect I reversed the 2 connections on the diode.
My wife would describe it as a "hot mess". I kind of enjoyed tinkering

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Really appreciate all the help!