IMDiesel-
There's often an "unused" trailer electric brake controller wire that runs from the rear of the coach to under the dash. What some of us have done is to connect the signal in the toad to that wire, and then put a small LED within sight of the driver. Think of it as moving the AFO light bar to the coach dashboard.
You'll hear the wire called the "blue wire," as that is its most common color. For a diagram on where that wire falls on "standard" hitch connectors, see this
link.
The setup is pretty easy to do. If you want details, I can dig out some iRV2 threads that discuss it.
I have the non-air version of the AFO, known as the Stay-in-Play Duo, with a dash LED. I bought the unit in 2014, before the Demco wireless link was available.
The Duo light bar (at least, the 2014 version) does not show intensity of braking effort- just that the Duo air cylinder piston has moved. It may be the same for the AFO.